Text Messages Tapping: Damned if you do...

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That's the second to last thing anyone would want to see in their mate's phone. Because it's just a DEAD give away that there is something to hide. And possibly too much infedelity to even disguise so it's best to just "delete all". Now the very last thing you want to see in his or her phone is those "I love you" messages and those "Cum fxck me" messages. Seriously, anytime you read something in your man's phone from another woman, especially one you don't know, it throws up a red flag... INSTANTLY. And men are the same way. Anytime a man sees a number with no name or a man's name in his woman's text catalog there is a flame of jealousy and insecurity that grows without hesitation. In so many cases relationships are ruined because of a conversation that should have never taken place between a partner and another person. People who cheat just seam to get careless and lazy after a while. And lets not forget, "everything done in the dark shall soon come to light". But what about those cases where "it's not what it seems" (those DO really exist). How many times have you heard that? Too many, right? The problem is text messages tend to be that way sometimes. How often have you had to reword your message to someone because you know good and well that it just doesn't look right? And how often do you read a message trying to figure out "did she mean it this way or this way"? easy mistake. If you don't know the history or the prelude to the conversation you can easily get off to the wrong start. So the question is "how do I know the difference?" My philosophy is "If it's there it'll come out. Why go looking?". And then there are those people who go looking for dirt just because. No valid suspicion, no reason for doubt, just plain ol' insecurity. Ever had somebody go through your phone and read something like "when can I get that from you" 
"when you want it"
"don't act stupid. ASAP"
and though it looks like some BULLSHxT you're actually talking about a discount on a phone bill from your cousin's boyfriend. If you don't trust the person you're with, that means one of you has some issues. Think about it, now you believe he's a liar and a cheater and he never cheated.. at some point he will get sick of trying to plead a case that he should never have been faced with! Now you don't trust him and he starts questioning your reasons for being so insecure! Be careful what you make accusations on when it comes to things you really are not sure of. But don't be a fool either. I guess it's about better judgement. Just don't lose something worth keeping over something that wasn't worth reading.