Maybe I Deserve... Maybe not

Tank said it best back in 2001 "Maybe I Deserve"...Maybe I deserve the hardships this love is putting me through. maybe I deserve to be lied to and cheated on... well maybe but maybe not. You see, no one wants to be hurt and somethings no one HAS  to experience. Physical violence, mental abuse.. no matter what you do you don't deserve it. There lives this Biotch named "Karma" and if you take it upon yourself to give someone what "they deserve" that puts you next in line to meet her. Let God handle them. And in so many instances we take on the responsibility of what someone else has done, the pain that someone else has caused. Ex: Just because Tasha has male friends doesn't means she deserves for Chris to stay out all night and not call. A woman and a man are able to have friends of the opposite sex without cheating. Now if Tasha is out freakin' around then yes, she deserves to be left alone and Chris has every right to keep it moving but why go out and cheat on her... by the end of this war there will be 4 STDs 3 broken hearts a baby with no daddy and some broken windows. The big point is, don't settle. Keep it real in your relationships up front that way there are less surprises at the end because, please believe, there will be ann end if there are a bunch of lies.