Don't be sorry, DO RIGHT!

"I'm sorry"
…So over used and undervalued. How many times have you had someone tell you I'm sorry for something you have forgiven them for time and time again? Well after so long "I'm sorry" is just like saying "I'm gonna do it again, you know?" It's a slap in the face. I tweeted yesterday. "I'm sorry is like a band-aid on a bullet hole, change is what heals the wound" If you constantly apologize for something, even if it's something different from last time, the point is you knew you were wrong when you did it. (Sorry- wretched, poor, useless, or pitiful) Are you pitiful? Are you useless....? Starts to look that way after a while... These days "sorry" has become a pacifier; what people give you to get you to shut the hell up! The best thing to do when you think someone want to hear you say I'm sorry, don't say anything. If they accept it they do, if not then they don't. Often times in relationships people find it easier to deal with a situation by accepting the fault. But what if you don't really think you're wrong? What if you really aren't wrong? Small things, petty things where the glory isn't worth the battle... fine, Let It Go but what about the chain of events afterwards. If you admit to being wrong and carry on about how sorry you are and in reality you feel like you were perfectly justified, what happens when you do it again? We don't look at the end result and the effect those two small words can have on the future. Trust can be ruined just by those simple words. My advice just don't say I'm sorry if you don't mean it.

Fear

We, as human beings, usually are driven by anger which is driven by frustration, which is caused by fear. The fear of "Not Knowing". We fear what we don't know and don't understand. Just think about it. You're probably a lot happier when you know the outcome of something, I know I am. When I know that at the end of the week I'll be paid for my work and effort... I'm I much more pleasant person. When you know your car will be out of the shop in 3 days you're relieved. When you know that as soon as you get home that special someone who you love is going to greet you with open arms.... It's a much better feeing and everything else doesn't matter as much. But the truth is we aren't made to know and understand EVERYTHING. Sometimes you have to roll with the flow, do your best, and expect the unexpected! Not all things that are invisible are bad. It's a simple thing called "Faith" that beats fear, every time. So before you react ask yourself "is it because I know the outcome or because I'm afraid that I don't." Don't live in fear, that's actually not living at all.
- "Courage is not the absense of fear. Courage is moving onward in spite of your fears" -Kerry Shook

Tribute: DESHAUN "PROOF" HOLTON

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Looking for Love with a Broken Heart

Please, please, please don't fall in love while you have a broken heart. Your judgment is impaired and your emotions are unstable. Some people say the best way to get over one is to find another... LIES! Think about it; you are so beaten inside that anything someone does right is over glorified and may not really be that critical. Say your ex never paid you enough attention and this new boo always calls and always texts.. you might be looking through the fact that this mofo is crazy as hell and when they say "where you at?" it's really not a cute joke.. they want to know longitude and latitude. People often times take advantage of the weak and wounded. Don't be a fool. The crazy thing is sometimes we don't even notice we're taking other people for granted. We can all be selfish at times: Human Nature. Then you blame yourself. But the worst thing is when you move on and you weren't ready and that old love returns and you become the bottom point of a "Love Triangle". You put yourself in that position. All these women running around saying they are in love with two men. NO! you have a love for one but being in love with a person mean that there are feelings that completely evade the possibility of being completely captivated, dedicated and loyal to another. A broken heart is not like a bone or a toy it is not easily healed and not only does it not ever heal the same but it has an impact on you physically and mentally. So my advice is to never fall in love while living on the pulse of a broken heart.

Wisdom

"you don't have to prove what already is... for gravity is evident and so is loyalty"

Thought of The Day

"If your Motives really are good, you should have no shame."

The Monkey Wrench

There is almost always someone who wants to throw a monkey wrench in a "good thing". Those people who want to see how bad they can screw up something. But the whole point of the monkey wrench analogy is they want to do it from afar and not make it seem like it's their fault. But it is. You see it's really simple, you give someone a stick and they turn it into a forest fire and let it go up in flames. but youuuu gave them the stick, so you have to take a piece of the blame. The point is there are always haters but some people are better at it than others. Find yourself trusting people who haven't earned your trust. Don't be a fool. People will tell you their behind you and they got your back but what are they doing back there... certainly aren't pushing you forward and definitely aren't defending you. "People who are 'supposed' to have your back have the best advantage in stabbing you in it." Becareful who you trust. There is almost always someone who wants to throw a monkey wrench in a "good thing".

In the words of Blade Icewood "Friends ain't really friend, just some cul ass nxggas" RIP Blade