Get YOU in Order First

Ok... "reality check" what are you going to do with another person in your life if you can't handle your life alone. People have this misconception of the need to have someone else to "complete" them. In actuality it's best to be able to stand on your own. A relationship is more likely to work if there are two people at 100% (or as close as us humans can get to it) coming together than two people who are at 50% coming together trying to be 100%. Make sense..? There are always going to be issues and problems, your partner will always have something you wish was different but it's not and it won't be. There does come a point, once you're in love with someone, when you don't want to separate because you've become one but that's different. In the case that you have built something and constructed a life together it is hard to pull it apart but it is just as difficult to put two broken pieces together that don't really fit. Its like a puzzle, 500 pieces and you have to put them all together to make a picture. rather than 2 pictures and putting them together to make a mural.. the mural is so much more beautiful. But in the event you just have to pull it apart... those two pictures can exist alone and you'll still see a full image. My point is get your finances straight, get the baby mamas and baby daddys in check, have your plans for the next 3 years at least, sort out your faith and beliefs. That way you can set standards as to whole does and does not deserve you. I'm just sayin...Get YOU in order first!