Moroccan Thursdays

Morocco meets the city .. Come join in this Thursday ..an amazing ambiance with the finest people in the city. Great drinks and headlining people, I can't forget to mention Free entry and also free hookah with your booth.
1701 Executive Cigar Bar & Lounge
140 Cadillac Sq Downtown Detroit

Words of Advice

If things aren't getting easier you gotta get tougher.

Temptation vs. Strength

Have you ever thought about what temptation is? It's not nice things, Temptation is not just wanting something you can't have... Temptation is the thirst and the desire for something that seems to majestically call your name and can even make you feel like nothing else matters. Temptation is an appetite.  But strength, real strength is resisting temptation. Obedience allows you to recognize what you may possibly be losing or sacrificing when you give in to temptation. Yes, it's true, fear can keep you on the straight and narrow also but I think strength is more rewarding.

Blast From The Past: case of the Ex

Seems like there should be like a "street code" court for these types of things. How do you handle those ex's who are cool with your family, even after the break up? You know the one you met through a family member and way after the relationship has ended they still come around. Well it may not bother you as much if you don't still have feelings, as a matter of fact you might even get over it and pay them NO attention... But what about your "Next"? When I say "Next" I'm referring to the new boo who is after the Ex. How does that person handle this situation? It's got to be uncomfortable for them. My advice, tho every relationship is different, is to stay away from it. If everyone isn't comfortable and if you can't control whether or not the ex comes around, let you partner know. That way the two of you can decide if that's a function you'd want to go to.

Quote of the Day

Life is a treat
Love is a gift
But to love life is a blessing
-Ava

Don't be stupid ALWAYS!

Sometimes we go through things and work for things and in the end all we gain is knowledge and experience. Well, there's a good reason for that. Experience and knowledge together make Wisdom. Wisdom is to do what you couldn't do before, to make your next plan better than the last and wisdom is meant to be shared. Think twice before you "travel down that same road"... that road that led you to say "man, I shoulda neva..." When you think about it our biggest set backs come from trying the same thing the sane way we failed before. Never stop trying but never stop learning, remembering and growing wiser.

Gotta Have Standards!

Some people may be ok with taking what they can get and accepting more than they should but for those of you who don't... we're on the same page. In love and relationships there is always compromise, otherwise there won't be a relationship. But there is a zigzag line between compromising and settling. You see financial "standards" are a little more difficult to some people but I'll map it out for you. You can't realistically tell a man or woman that they have to be able to supply a lavish lifestyle that you've never even experienced. I mean, you can but seriously theres a name for people who do... GOLD DIGGER!!! So it's safe to say someone who works as hard as you do or can match you is a fair standard. True, everyone falls on hard times, so take that into consideration but remember to count the days too. It is so easy to be taken advantage of. But money is not the only standard you have to set. You still have to think about the respect factor.. the "do's and don'ts". Attention, may not be for all people, but to a lot of us Attention is a big factor; time, energy and the company of your companion can make or break a relationship. Now it's unfair to demand a 24/7 schedule but it's only fair to make it a priority. Physical presentation means a lot and it should mean a lot to both of you. You don't want to walk in the restaurant looking like you just tore down the mall while your "boo" still looks like last nights after hour hang over. When you know he's gonna be fly MATCH HIS FLY! Ladies, don't come out looking like a hoodrat and wonder why some other woman is trying to snatch up your neat, clean, tapered man. The standards you set say a lot about you; not only what you have done and seen but they reflect what you think of yourself. And regardless of how anyone tries to make it seem, you deserve to have those things, you deserve to have certain things you deserve to be happy. Don't settle because someone else is slacking.