Sunday, March 11, 2012

Try Trust For A Change

You have to trust your man, you have to trust your woman. Point blank. Period. Everyone has been hurt, I'm sure, and everyone has been used, mistreated and neglected. But the thing about that is you have to keep living and keep loving. Now, shame on you if you don't learn from your mistakes and make more careful decisions based on your experiences but whats the point of getting involved with someone else if you're going to treat them like they're your ex.  Now remember this advice and my opinions, in this blog, are for people in love and looking for love because those of you who are out here smelling yourself, this ain't for you. Anyway, Not everyone wants to string you along, not everyone wants to be with six people at a time. You know, it's easier to believe in your man or your woman's motives if you know yours are correct. I trust him because I know that there are still people walking this earth who don't sleep around, simply because I know I don't. Love still exists. There are still people who believe in marriage. It is so easy to push someone away by making accusations and false judgments based on your own insecurities. Stop telling him you know he "ain't shxt", stop telling her you "knew she was a ho" every time you are in an argument. You have to step out on faith. Love whole heartedly. It is a a lot easier, especially for men, to try being serious when they see a woman is serious. Show him you are not like every other female, unless you just are. And for the men, confirm your situation. Don't flip out every time she asks where you are. Don't forget to call her when you get home or when you're going to be out a little longer than expected. It's called "nip it in the bud". It's not possible to be perfect but it's not hard to make an effort. So try Trust for a change.

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