Giving Away The Secrets: Keeping Him

Now every one says it's hard to find a good man.. Well that is true. It is HARD to get a good man but it is MUCH harder to keep him. But it doesn't have to be hard... It will never be "simple but it doesn't have to be hard. Part of the job is paying attention. There are some things about you that attracted him, keep those things! If it was the fact that you ALWAYS kept your nails and toes done.. do that. If it was the simple fact that you always cooked for him and you would text him to say "hope you're hungry" don't stop cooking. The fact of the matter is you have to do something to get him but you have to keep doing things to keep him. There are plenty of women, girls, hoes and tricks out here watching him like vultures. These are things I have heard from men and things that I just know so pay close attention. A friend of mine told me that he hates the fact that his girlfriend has started wearing jogging shorts and T-shirts to bed all the time. well, you know what I think.. she's giving it up to someone else and doesn't want to be bothered but who am I to tell him that? Ladies break out the "sexies"! Would it hurt you to pick up a lace nighty or even a cute bra and panty set? Chick I know says she cooks when they are having company, but she used to cook for him everyday. He left her for an older woman who has 3 kids but I bet you she cooks for him every single day when she cookin for those bay-bay-kids. Send him random text messages to remind him that he is a MAN. "Thank you for making me feel secure, it means a lot" or "I can't wait to see you later, promise to wrap those arms around me?" how about "you know this is yours, right? >]" All men might not be the affectionate type but recognition is a plus. Stroke that man's ego for goodness sake! When you're out buying your purses and shoes get him something. When you go out to buy bleach and dish washing liquid pick up some sock and wife beaters for him. If He is a good man he deserves to be treated as such. Hold him down. When he falls off you get him back on. Don't be selfish. If he needs to cry you suck your tears up and wipe his eyes. Tell him everything will be ok because he is a MAN and because you're not going anywhere. Say it and mean it! Get a job or a hobby: if your man is taking care of you then you should be showing him that you can help him help y'all! And of all the things be a good mother. First off, when you have those kids, work out. Don't get sloppy and lazy, just like you don't want him to go broke he doesn't want you to get *busted*. Be a mother, he'll love you for that but don't forget about him. He still needs his woman. Sounds like a lot of work?... It IS!! but if you're not going to do it he'll find four women for each job. You might get a man with that a** and those dimples but baby!... it's gonna take more than a cute face and limber legs to keep him.